The Art of Small Steps of Vibrational Freebies

❓QUESTION:
Lee, please explain: I try to imagine that an important question for me is resolved, but… I possibly cannot accept that the result will come to me "for free," since I am not taking any grand actions for it. Inside there is a desire to act in this direction, for example, the connection: work-activity-result. But there is no opportunity to devote full time to work right now — there are children, who take up all my attention. Roughly speaking, everything that comes without my participation… no work — no money. No actions in that direction — no result. I can't figure out how to get through this moment?
❗️ANSWER by lee:
First, we receive all results vibrationally. Which in your terms sounds like "we always get everything for free." Anything else is impossible, neither from the point of view of physics nor from the point of view of logic… But since people do not use logic at all, but use illogical belief systems, it SEEMS to them that effort and strain are needed for a result. That is, people, on the contrary, tend to illogically fight off abundance, using all their power as a Creator. That is how the illusion works.
That is, the suffering, tension, torment of mind and body that people create for themselves is the result of a struggle AGAINST abundance. And it is logical that after long years of struggle many do not receive abundance — after all, their efforts at struggle are evident. And the fact that they call it a "struggle for results" — that is precisely where the absence of logic is observed.
Second, as long as you use the "suffering" belief system, you cannot direct it toward "receiving freebies." It will not help you as a tool. It is like sawing a tree with an axe. It seems to be a "tool for wood," but the logic of its use is different from that of a saw. Therefore, you should not jump from the logic of "work = money" into the idea of "freebies" — quick disappointment will only reinforce the former logic and throw you back.
So begin with small steps that are available to you in your current time-place. Persuade the mind, come to an agreement with the mind, show the mind the logic of more advantageous beliefs. And only then begin to gradually accelerate.
Small steps are clear personal examples of how you create simple things. Some little things. Things that do not seem to you like "freebies," but rather like a "little trick" or a "prank of synchronicity." Something very simple, like observing storylines in life to which you gave close attention. Such things can be, for example, your neighbours' realization tomorrow of what you imagined for yourself today. And, instead of envy, you note — "aha, my thoughts are being realized in events." The mind very easily lets such "coincidences" slip by. But by observing them, you very quickly train the mind to EXPECT CORRESPONDENCE IN EVERYTHING.
And even if your mind is very stubborn, sooner or later it will agree that since you have already equipped all your neighbours with all your images, then you can allow something for yourself too. And once it agrees, that is when it (the mind) will enjoy creating "freebies" for itself. That is when the process will go like a hurricane — you will get yourself anything you want, for free, in any amount.