Is it good if there is no longer a former attachment to close ones

❓QUESTION:
Lee, tell me, is it a good sign that deep attachments to people, even close ones, seem to have disappeared? This, among other things, helps to experience the deterioration of relationships with them not as painfully as before. I observe in myself a complete absence of desire to enter into conflict, to explain something — I just watch from the sidelines what is happening. In new relationships, too, there seems to be no familiar depth, but on the other hand, there is no fear at all that something will not work out, and there is full confidence that this person is needed by me at this stage of life, and if tomorrow another one is needed — so be it.
❗️ANSWER by lee:
If you have a deep feeling of "we are one" and you are no longer dependent on anyone's opinion — this is a good sign.
If you have "you are dear" and not "you are dearer than that person" — this is a good sign.
If you have "well done for doing as you yourself chose" and not "you are bad because you don't do as I said" — this is a good sign.
If you have "every child deserves happiness" and you no longer single out "whose parents this child has" — this is a good sign.
What is a "good sign" in this case?
Probably, it is what makes those around you a part of you, without singling out someone as a "part of not-me".