❓QUESTION:
I keep meeting stingy, even greedy men who take advantage of my kindness and frankly start living at my expense. Even wealthy ones exhibit this trait with me. Now I've decided to live alone)), but men still either lie about having no money or show greed. What should I pay attention to so that the situation changes?
❗️ANSWER Lee:
Pay attention to the excessive manifestation of your masculine energy—'doing.' It clearly follows that what is active for you is 'giving' as a priority over 'receiving.'
Feminine energy is about sensing what comes, and 'receiving' is a part of nourishment. That is, the airplane rule—'put on your own mask first, then the child's.'
The deception here lies not in your desire to give everything to everyone indiscriminately, but in where you direct your attention. It seems that 'getting this task done' is more important than 'what I am feeling.' In the end, this makes the task itself feel endlessly unfinished, and the feelings are not the best.
And the 'noble' quality of 'caring for loved ones' is replaced by a lack of self-care. That is, in such a state, a person does not feel themselves because they are constantly manifesting something in the external world. This may also hide the roots of beliefs about the need to prove one's right to exist to the world.
So, let's pause; there's no need to prove anything—you are the Source. This is a given.
Now, as the Source, look at how you pamper yourself in the physical world, how much care you give yourself, how many gifts you allow yourself to give TODAY, without putting them off for 'later, when there's time.'
If your man is your gift—well great, then you are pampering yourself with him—take the responsibility off him; you gave this to yourself. But if it's some kind of games and intrigue, then shut the door in his face and get in the bath yourself, relax—let the Power come to you first, and then you decide how much to give to whomever you want.
As the Source, you are limitless in your creation. You really could support a harem of men. The only question is how much of a 'nourishing process' it is. If it doesn't nourish you, then send your harem out to work—let them return with the spoils.
