The more I want, the less it works out
❓QUESTION:
I want to understand why some desires—for example, motherhood seemed unrealistic, I just wanted it but didn't do anything, didn't feel it, yet it happens repeatedly—while the topic of money—I feel it, I imagine it, I sense it—just won't come to me )))) – what's the catch? I recognize many of my desires realized around me now, but specifically those I didn't suffer over and didn't create intentionally).
❗️ANSWER by lee:
Because you didn't "suffer" as much as you "wanted badly, but suffered."
In general, this is the topic of "letting go" or "unclenching your fist."
Imagine two people who need to sew on a button—one with clenched fists, the other with relaxed palms.
And the one with clenched fists is bewildered as to how he, such a powerful fighter from whom opponents scatter just by seeing him, cannot sew on a button. And the other person—weak, but relaxed—takes the needle and sews it on.
In manifestation, one should consider the principle of a wave—for it to reach the shore, the water needs to gather by receding from the shore. If you are "holding the water on the shore," it cannot form into a new wave.
If you keep the definition "I am someone who needs money" in your head, the very quality of "needing" will also be active. It will be realized even when much more money comes in than yesterday.
You specifically "recognize" your realized desires because you stopped focusing on them.
Look at what the difference is.
"I want" - "I feel" - ... and here it is not "I insist," but rather - "I allow all new events to go as they go, trusting the result." Everything that happens is not classified as a failure, but is assigned the meaning - "this is the shortest path."
That is where the subtlety lies—to be in trust while on the path itself.
