The Observer Creates Reality

❓QUESTION:
In physics, whoever observes a particle determines the result. Does it follow that everyone who observes an event in life influences it? Does it follow that "you mustn't talk about your plans" and "whatever you boast of, you'll be left without" are true?
❗️ANSWER:
Not quite. In physics, every point of observation creates its own result. In the end, there are as many results as there are positions of the Observer. Moreover, each position in each moment of time creates its own result. Next, physicists are puzzled by the question of what can even be considered an observer: a camera, a cat, a fly, a person, a microphone…?
Hence the following conclusion: your plans, told to people whose opinions you react to, will be distorted by YOUR reaction to their opinion. If you couldn't care less about someone else's opinion, your plans will not undergo distortion. That is, every moment of "changing your reality" still passes through you. Others always see only their own version.
If we go even further, the situation is such that TWO different events happen simultaneously for two people. Then they "clarify" with each other "what that was" and agree on an altogether THIRD result. And all three of these results really do happen "on the physical level."