Veterinarian Carlos Gutiérrez stated on 16 September 2026 that cats possess the ability to choose their caregivers, striving for a secure attachment. According to the specialist, this is an emotional choice based on trust and a sense of protection, and not merely on the search for food or a comfortable spot.
Gutiérrez emphasized that scientific data confirm: cats form emotional bonds with people and seek out a figure who provides stability in stressful situations. This approach is comparable to the behavior of other mammals, in which the animal identifies the one who provides well-being and positive responses to its needs.
A secure attachment allows a cat to feel protected and to explore its surroundings with greater confidence. The specialist noted that many cats do indeed have a "favorite" person in the family, and this choice depends on several factors.
The formation of a cat's personality is influenced by early socialization during the period from the second to the seventh week of life, genetics, previous experience, and the conditions in which it grew up. That is why some animals are more open, while others need more time to establish trust.
Gutiérrez warned against the mistake of people favoring only the most sociable cats in shelters. In his opinion, shyer animals also deserve a chance at a home and can form a strong bond with the right approach.
To build trust with a recently adopted cat, the expert recommends respecting the animal's pace: not forcing contact, providing a quiet place to hide, placing food and water near the shelter, and encouraging voluntary approaches with petting or treats.
With patience and consistency, even the most reserved cats are capable of developing a strong and long-term attachment to their caregivers. This shows that behind the apparent independence of cats lies a complex emotional life, in which the choice of a person plays a key role.
