I am petite and delicate: how to find your own style in clothing?

❓QUESTION:
Hello, lee! And how to find your own style in clothing? It's actually an important question. Especially when you work with a holistic image. I am small and very delicate. I tried listening to stylists, but all their looks for petite women are built on adding at least a couple of coveted centimeters of height...

❗️ANSWER from lee:
The theme of style is the theme of "how I express myself." The same person behaves differently in different clothing styles. So it's quite simple – however you like to express yourself, that's what you should wear at the moment.
And conversely – if you are not satisfied with your self-perception, then one of the external ways to improve it is to change the type of clothing. Precisely for your well-being.

As for height, that's a different topic, related to the knowledge hidden in DNA about "visitors from the past." Here, it's not even a "complex" that breaks through, but rather a desire to "be from a higher caste." But, as we know, this is an archetypal part of the Game, firmly connected with polarization, not with the real state of affairs.

In other words, being petite and delicate does not in the least prevent a person from being whole and complete. Only the mind can invent something that creates a fictitious game of problems. And only the one who bothers themselves with this, then bothers other people as well.

This game has an opposite pole – very tall people have created for themselves the game of "the one who sticks their neck out gets punished." That is, this is the theme of "being noticed," which is also part of polarization – the story about oneself chosen at birth. But any story can be rewritten within oneself, thereby changing events without changing one's physical parameters at all.