❓QUESTION:
If a soul chooses its parents and place during incarnation, what happens in the case of adoption? A child gains second parents, and everything fundamentally changes; does the soul choose this specific option during incarnation?
Does it also choose the adoptive parents? What truly occurs, given that two distinct lineages connect, and what kind of balance and synergy can exist between them?
❗️ANSWER from lee:
Have you ever considered the connections between parents themselves? That is, a child might be common to them, along with all the talk about lineage, but what truly connects the parents? After all, in a typical relationship, their bloodlines are distinct, and their ancestors are strangers to one another.
If these two individuals found each other to conceive a child, wouldn't the same process apply in the case of adoption?
We are never truly separate from other people. At the soul level, we have no literal boundaries. Just as the air in your bedroom is not separate from the air in your living room, souls are not divided; there are merely different concentrations of various "gases" due to the specific flow of the common air.
The most crucial aspect for incarnation is experience. Souls enter the physical realm in pursuit of experience. In the case of adoption, this encompasses the cumulative experience of body creation (a specific body is needed for its own reasons), the experience of gaining new parents, relationship experiences, the specifics of upbringing, and so forth.
Life's purposes do not possess physical meanings at all (what people perceive as the essence of actions, kinship, inheritance, and so on); they are always constructed from non-physical perspectives.
Every combination of relationships is far from coincidental. You simply cannot draw another person into your life experience unless you share a MUTUAL connection and mutual goals.
To further deepen your understanding of this topic, consider the following examples. Occasionally (though extremely rare, it is possible) people adopt their own past-life version of themselves.
Slightly more often, your own great-grandparents are adopted, as they are eager to return after rapid transitions. Much more frequently, those who were your children, parents, or siblings in other lifetimes are adopted.
These encounters are not accidental; they are predetermined within your "contracts." And there's no need for you to specifically try to guess "past connections."
Such events automatically draw everything into alignment. The more effortlessly you approach this process, the more easily you will be found by those who are already awaiting you.
